How often do you get stuck in comparing yourself to others? Income? Job status? Social life? Marriage?   How about shifting the focus back to you?   It’s alarming to experience and witness the ease of outward comparison instead of inner reflection. All of the juicy nuggets of uniqueness are ignored for something we don’t…

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What is important to you?   What do you desire but talk yourself out of?   Is it a different job?   A new hobby?   A dream vacation?   Growth in a relationship?   Learning a new skill?   Where does the ability to struggle, fail, get up and repeat come from?   As…

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Be yourself.   Sometimes those two words are enough to stir confusion and overwhelm.   What does it mean to be yourself?   Who are you?   Who do you know you to be?   Who do others know you to be?   **Spoiler alert** this is not going to answer the deep question of…

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To know how to be one’s own self…   Powerful.   Liberating.   Necessary.   Fear is no longer in charge.   Control is no longer an issue.   Love is at the root.   Freedom from attachment.   When we liberate ourselves from expectations and attachments to outcomes, there is greater flow in each…

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What do you suppose happens when someone rejects their brokenness? Let me clarify my perspective on brokenness. I don’t believe that we are broken or need “fixing”. I do believe there are pieces of our lives or experiences that we attempt to keep separate from the parts or experiences we accept, thus creating “brokenness”. The…

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  Change can be a struggle. New ideas require loss…loss of old stories, old beliefs, old restrictions. The important element to remember is the expansiveness that occurs because of the change. We face the difficulty of change daily-be it at work, at home or with our friends. We have all met people whom we deem…

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  Courage.   Boundaries.   Vulnerability.   All three of these words are powerhouses; the core foundation of authentic living. For true alignment, all of them need to fluidly co-exist. First and foremost, one needs to know oneself well enough to know what is in alignment within.   I have a ‘rule’ that I hold…

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  The power of choice…the most incredible tool we have in our possession at ALL times. The reality check comes in how often we choose NOT to use the power of choice. It is also of importance to clarify that choosing happiness doesn’t mean sugarcoating the fullness of emotions that we experience. It is about…

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  I almost have to laugh at myself for the resistance I am experiencing to sit down and be with this quote. Part of my journey right now is an increase in noticing the pain in my physical body. My left side is finding its way to healing, opening and balancing and experiencing a fair…

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  This picture speaks to me as much as the quote does. The levels of immersion and emerging are quite profound, not to mention the water, moonlight and lotus. There is a face that appears blindfolded, looking deeper. There are faces expressing serenity, focus and determination, intensity and peace. There is an arm reaching out.…

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