Think of a person who brings up nervous energy within you.
Who do you think they need or want you to be?
How does that compare with who you believe you are?
What keeps you in the cycle of being someone you’re not?
People ask what must they become to be loving. The answer is ‘nothing.’ It is a process of letting go of what you thought you had become and allowing your true nature to float to the surface naturally.
~ Stephen Levine